Did you wake up one day and realise you’d somehow signed up to the terms and conditions of a lifestyle, relationship or career path that doesn’t even fit you anymore?

What are you waking up to?

“I can’t do this job anymore.”

“This relationship isn’t what I thought it was.”

“This isn’t the person I thought they were.”

“This isn’t the career I imagined, or the life I thought I’d have.”

Are you experiencing an expectation hangover - the uncomfortable space between the life you thought you wanted and the reality you’re waking up to? The future you pictured, the person you thought you’d become, the relationship you believed in, the career you worked towards. And now, something isn’t sitting right anymore.

You can’t quite ignore it, and maybe you don't know what comes next, but you can see that what you once wanted might no longer be right for you.

I’ve definitely had periods where I’ve wondered where I was headed, wondering what was going on with me. I think it’s very easy to get to a point where you know something doesn’t feel right, but you can’t quite put your finger on why, so you start looking for an answer everywhere. I know that feeling because I’ve been there myself.

And whilst everyone has their own life transition, the desire is often the same. You want out. You want peace. You want freedom. You want joy. You want more from life. You want better than before! 

This is where I come alive; by helping women recognise what is giving them the life that they currently have, understand where it has come from and begin to see what is possible beyond that.

Here’s a spoiler alert: the angst you’ve been feeling is actually a divine wake-up call. A nudge from God that says, “Hey, you’ve been labouring in vain.” 

You may have subconsciously chosen a path or way of living that wasn’t actually for you, but somewhere along the way you came to believe it was. You followed it, built a life around it and became good at it. And now, underneath all the questioning and restlessness, you can feel the call to turn away and say no.

This is the call to step out of your zone of excellence and into your zone of genius, my friend. It’s time to elevate! And that means recognising that you may have been living by a set of rules that were never yours to begin with. Ooh! 

I believe that you were created with purpose and that your past, your current conditions, your family history, your circumstances and the patterns you have inherited or learned do not get the final word over your life.

So, my friend, have the boldness to say NO to the path you’ve been on, and the courage to elevate and say YES to the new territory waiting for you. It's time to break free and live and work fully and freely, in more sustainable ways. Better than before!

You see, life isn’t just about getting through each day and surviving; it’s about having the space to flourish, to find your spark again and to feel invigorated, renewed and excited about what lies ahead.

Come and live life at a more elevated level instead. The view is great up here! 

Welcome home.

Tammy x

Read my Blog post: When Life No Longer Fits